The Sibling Bond

The only enemy we can’t live without is our sibling. It is quite hard to put that affection into a single term. In this wondrous world, many of us are blessed with a sibling. A brother or a sister beside you is like having a great feeling of courage to do anything fearlessly.

Right from birth to death siblings share an invaluable relationship. Mother, father, a friend, and spouse can never replace siblings. The special sharing bond sprouts between them when they born and it continues forever. No matter what happens happiness is obvious in this bond. The fights, being responsible for one another, giving complaints against each other to their parents, the pampering, sharing things, it is just never-ending one to explain the things siblings do.

But once they grow up, they become adults. In this stage, some stay the same however some stops all those silly stuff and become very reserved, some become very caring and sacrifice things to their siblings, some will get a new friend named the distance between them invited by the hostel life. Same-gender siblings like an elder brother, younger brother, and elder sister, younger sister share a distinct bond from the different gender siblings. Though the relation between is the same but the changes when they get older become very peculiar. Some express love towards their brother or sister openly, some never express it out still they will have a special place for their kin in their hearts.

One or the other day, some of us might have come across siblings who fight unusually even for silly things. They argue for the things which are not even considered to be important. They get back to normal, continues to be playful, fight again and this continues. But some never get back to each other to talk and will take so long time to get into normal conversations. Cannot conclude that they do not love each other. But when they come to realize that they are missing their brother or sister on a particular day, it might have been too late to react and express their love to their siblings. Though that might be very funny to recall all those flights they had, they may not have her/him in the present life to quarrel with them or to say sorry about the things they have done to them. They might have gone somewhere very far from you.

Consider a brother both younger and elder, he may move from your home town to his working city for job purpose and you will not even have enough time to spend with or to fight daily as you did in your past. Consider a sister for an elder brother or a sister to a younger brother. Once get married, you will barely have a chance to converse. The only thing you might have in your hands is to recall all those memories of your childhood. Hence try spending some precious time with your siblings.

Hey, taciturn quarrel with your sister and make some memories to spend your life in your future. And to the arguing sister, pamper your brother to make fun of him in front of his wife in the future. A sibling is a person who quarrels with us, who support us, who make fun of us, who blackens the faces of our enemies, who make you smile when you cry, who shares everything in our life….there is never an end to this. There are many to tell about a brother by a sister like me or about a sister by a brother like one among you who is reading this.